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Empowering Students to Succeed

John Bishop

How much money does our country spend to control/eliminate the social problems of facing our youth - drugs, crime, gangs, teen pregnancy, alcoholism, and physical and sexual abuse, etc.?

If a student’s world includes some of the problems identified above, how does he or she see the bigger picture? How does a student break the cycle? How do we as teachers and concerned caregivers help today’s youth succeed. We must encourage them to take control of their education and to develop an “I’ll Make It Happen” approach in the classroom and in life.

If we teach students how to set and achieve goals and how to apply those principles in the classroom, students will learn they play a significant role in their education and in their future. By learning how to set and achieve goals, how to overcome challenges, the importance of being positive, and how to measure their progress, students learn how to enhance and increase their chances for success.

When students take ownership of their education they take personal responsibility to do something meaningful and positive to change their lives. With ownership comes dignity and self-respect. Teaching students how to set and achieve realistic goals will make a significant, long-term difference in performance in the classroom, in the workplace, and in life.

Teaching these important “life skills” principles should be a collaborative effort shared by teachers, students and parents and other caregivers. Ask yourself a couple of questions: 1) Were you taught how to set goals in school? (85% of people say “no.”), and 2) If you had been, would it have helped you in school and in your adult life?

Search Institute is a non-profit organization established in 1958 to advance the well being of children and adolescents. In their survey of over 250,000 students, they identified 40 development assets that young people need to grow up to be healthy, responsible adults.

Teaching students about how to set and achieve goals and how to take ownership of their education will positively address fifteen (15) of these important development assets. They are: positive view of the personal future, higher expectations, parent involvement in schooling, achievement motivation, adult role models, positive peer pressure, school engagement, homework, honesty, bonding in school, planning and decision making, positive family communications, self esteem, sense of purpose, and responsibility.

Goal Setting for Students

What makes a successful goal setting program?
Several things must be done to persuade students to “buy into” these concepts and to change their life habits. Our children live in a rapid paced, MTV world. To be effective the program must be a structured, discussion-based curriculum that answers three questions on the student’s mind: “how to”, “why is this important”, “how do I use this today to make my life, and those around me, better.”

The material has to be interesting and in small enough parts that students can digest the new material. Suggested topics might include: the fundamentals of what goals are and samples of how to use them in everyday life, how to invest in yourself by minimizing the “Bummer Words” words that hold you back – “no, can’t, won’t, never, maybe, and if. “Other topics might include how to measure your progress toward reaching your goals, and how to overcome obstacles like the fear of failure, lack of determination, and peer pressure.

Importantly, the curriculum should show the student how to get started using the goal setting “life skills” today in this learning environment. It is essential that this not be a lecture format. Students will retain more of the material when they can first learn about a chapter topic and then share their views about what they learned with others. A good structured goal setting program will include real world examples for each chapter topic. Using examples, that the students can identify with, will help to drive home the chapter topics but do so in a subtle way.

Each chapter should include open-ended, discussion stimulating questions that gives the students an opportunity to express themselves. There should be questions for class discussions and for follow up conversations with the student’s parent or other caregiver. These questions should be asked in such a way to virtually eliminate the one word answers “yes” and “no”. Examples for a home activity questions might include: “Without mentioning names, do you know anyone whose life was damaged by the “fear of failure”? Have you experienced it? How do you think someone can overcome their fear of failure?”

One very important part of any structured goal setting program should be helping others. In today’s world there are plenty of people who belong to the “it’s all about me” club. Many people mistakenly think it’s a “me, me, me” world, and stay so focused on themselves they forget a really important part of life – helping others. A successful program helps students to focus on helping others.

Marian Wright Edelman of the Children’s Defense Fund stated “never have we exposed children so early, and relentlessly, to cultural messages glamorizing violence, sex, possessions, alcohol and tobacco ….Never have we pushed so many children onto the tumultuous sea of life without life vests…”

Today’s “life vests” may be our ability to empower students to develop an “I’ll Make It Happen” approach in the classroom and in life.



John Bishop is the Executive Director of Accent on Success™, a not-for-profit organization dedicated to helping students achieve success in the classroom and in life, and author of the Goal Setting for Students™ program.


 

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